Friday, April 11, 2008
12:05 AM
i hope the title was not a bit confusing, eh?
people that made you exists in this world.
PARENTS.
first people you grown up with.
FAMILY.
person/s you can run to when in trouble.
FAMILY.
person/s you could cry on before friends.
FAMILY.
person/s you usually argue for attention of parents.
SIBLINGS.
a value that sticks ONE FAMILY together.
LOVE.
pansin niyo? they usually say, that a good boy comes from a good family, a stubborn one could come from a messy surroundings which he/she had grown up to.
BROKEN FAMILY? ever heard of that? one time, i asked my mom, how could a couple's kid cope when his/her parents parted way? she answered me, "nothing, but to accept the truth." that hit home.. really.. i think no one ever liked to have a family like that. because, i actually believe that, our family are the first one who make us discover such a wonderful world, teaches us how such thing work, the one you could share your amazement with those fascinating sceneries. they were the FIRST PERSON/S EVER that we learned to LOVE.
if you had read my post ".i got a new mission!.", i'm telling you, this thing was actually related to the boy i had fallen in love with. i've got time to talk to him so i could clear up my mess now.. but because of his stubbornness, i was frustrated, really.. he's really hopeless with only the three letter word in his mind. "die".
but then, the word "family" came up to my mind. maybe, because his parents were separated and he was not even in good terms with her two older sisters, na kung umasta daw eh, a boy's act.. i've got to thinking, maybe he was just missing his own mom who was abroad and it's vacation in the Philippines was canceled because, her mom and sis got into a fight. you see? maybe he was actually craving for a "female figure" who could do anything to comfort him, that's why he couldn't just forget me, dahil sabi niya, nagagawa ko raw sa kanya ang hindi magawa ng ate at papa niya.. his mom could probably do it.. i'm sure..
life would be so dull if there's no conflict, so true. i just told him that HE is the only one who could solve out the problems at home. but still, he keeps saying he already tried his best, hindi na niya kaya.. but, teka, WHY GIVE UP NOW? kung ako sa kanya, hindi ako basta-basta papayag na mauwi lang sa wala lahat ng pinaghirapan ko, makita lang masaya pamilya ko. "try and try until you succeed" ika nga.. if he's eager to put an end to all the conflict inside his family, magagawa niya yun.. like for example, let's make it a dream, siguro naman, everyone tries their best just to reach their dreams right? bakit kaya hindi niya i-try uli? there's nothing wrong with trying, atleast naman, the outcome would be good, right? and there's nothing impossible if you are willing to face all the test..
in life naman eh, test comes first before lesson. kung sa school nga, lesson before test, swerte noh? but that such thing could never ever be apply in real life, why? in my own point of view, if you already knew the lesson, then why bother to take the test? right? wala ka 'ring mapapatunayan sa sarili mo, dahil hindi mo siya mae-experience.. hindi mo mae-experience yung thrill..
so all i could say was "try and try until you succeed, 'coz there's no harm in trying." maybe, he's ought to solve his family-matters first so he could live happily. tignan niyo kasi, if you are commmited, nawawalan kayo ng time sa family, kasi yung nobyo mo pinagtutuunan mo ng pansin, paano mo maso-solve yung problema sa bahay? eh wala ka na ngang time, tapos magkaka-problema naman sa relationship.. wala rin eh.. parang hinahayaan mo lang sarili mo na kainin ka ng problema.. so that's it.. GOOD LUCK, remember, IF THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY. *winks*
people that made you exists in this world.
PARENTS.
first people you grown up with.
FAMILY.
person/s you can run to when in trouble.
FAMILY.
person/s you could cry on before friends.
FAMILY.
person/s you usually argue for attention of parents.
SIBLINGS.
a value that sticks ONE FAMILY together.
LOVE.
pansin niyo? they usually say, that a good boy comes from a good family, a stubborn one could come from a messy surroundings which he/she had grown up to.
BROKEN FAMILY? ever heard of that? one time, i asked my mom, how could a couple's kid cope when his/her parents parted way? she answered me, "nothing, but to accept the truth." that hit home.. really.. i think no one ever liked to have a family like that. because, i actually believe that, our family are the first one who make us discover such a wonderful world, teaches us how such thing work, the one you could share your amazement with those fascinating sceneries. they were the FIRST PERSON/S EVER that we learned to LOVE.
if you had read my post ".i got a new mission!.", i'm telling you, this thing was actually related to the boy i had fallen in love with. i've got time to talk to him so i could clear up my mess now.. but because of his stubbornness, i was frustrated, really.. he's really hopeless with only the three letter word in his mind. "die".
but then, the word "family" came up to my mind. maybe, because his parents were separated and he was not even in good terms with her two older sisters, na kung umasta daw eh, a boy's act.. i've got to thinking, maybe he was just missing his own mom who was abroad and it's vacation in the Philippines was canceled because, her mom and sis got into a fight. you see? maybe he was actually craving for a "female figure" who could do anything to comfort him, that's why he couldn't just forget me, dahil sabi niya, nagagawa ko raw sa kanya ang hindi magawa ng ate at papa niya.. his mom could probably do it.. i'm sure..
life would be so dull if there's no conflict, so true. i just told him that HE is the only one who could solve out the problems at home. but still, he keeps saying he already tried his best, hindi na niya kaya.. but, teka, WHY GIVE UP NOW? kung ako sa kanya, hindi ako basta-basta papayag na mauwi lang sa wala lahat ng pinaghirapan ko, makita lang masaya pamilya ko. "try and try until you succeed" ika nga.. if he's eager to put an end to all the conflict inside his family, magagawa niya yun.. like for example, let's make it a dream, siguro naman, everyone tries their best just to reach their dreams right? bakit kaya hindi niya i-try uli? there's nothing wrong with trying, atleast naman, the outcome would be good, right? and there's nothing impossible if you are willing to face all the test..
in life naman eh, test comes first before lesson. kung sa school nga, lesson before test, swerte noh? but that such thing could never ever be apply in real life, why? in my own point of view, if you already knew the lesson, then why bother to take the test? right? wala ka 'ring mapapatunayan sa sarili mo, dahil hindi mo siya mae-experience.. hindi mo mae-experience yung thrill..
so all i could say was "try and try until you succeed, 'coz there's no harm in trying." maybe, he's ought to solve his family-matters first so he could live happily. tignan niyo kasi, if you are commmited, nawawalan kayo ng time sa family, kasi yung nobyo mo pinagtutuunan mo ng pansin, paano mo maso-solve yung problema sa bahay? eh wala ka na ngang time, tapos magkaka-problema naman sa relationship.. wala rin eh.. parang hinahayaan mo lang sarili mo na kainin ka ng problema.. so that's it.. GOOD LUCK, remember, IF THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY. *winks*
